Another way my neighbors are making everyone feel closer together even at 6 feet apart. This is the Kim trio they've been going around the neighborhood perform a mini concerts on people's driveways. What are your neighbors doing? Ideas please! #LifeInTheTimeOfCorona pic.twitter.com/qaObl7GVLv
— Erin Collard (@ToddandErin) April 5, 2020
Life during coronavirus doesn’t have a shape yet. There’s bits and pieces all jammed together in this “New Normal,” like, keeping six feet apart. Staying home. Homeschooling. Trying to work. Keeping isolated.
But instead of circling the wagons, my neighborhood started reaching out. The messages popped up on our neighborhood website like daffodils.
“I can go shopping for anyone who can’t leave the house.”
“Would anyone like me to walk their dogs?”
“My kids’ string trio would be happy to give you a sidewalk concert!”
Then, the sidewalk messages as we strolled past each other’s houses, with chalk left invitingly to add a note or two of our own.
Life during coronavirus – how neighbors keep connected.
- Neighbors started getting creative – my girlie Laurie’s magnificent fairy garden is open year-round, which changes for the seasons and the holidays. She left a basket of unpainted birdhouses for the kiddos around the block, inviting them to take one home to decorate and bring back to “help the fairies create spring.”
- One family in my neighborhood is creeping in under the cover of darkness to replace battered old mailboxes for neighbors with beautiful, hand-painted masterpieces that force you to smile when you see them.
- In certain ways, I’ve felt closer to my community during the social distancing orders than I did before, because everyone’s reaching out in beautiful ways to bring happiness. Like the Garden Walk, one neighbor’s effort to cheer up passers-by with a chance to go through her glorious path filled to bursting with blooms.
- With an eye to the Amazon.com and FedEx trucks circling our neighborhood like a series of one-winged hawks, my neighbor put out a big cooler of drinks and snacks, inviting them to help themselves.
Here’s the tally after six weeks of quarantine:
- We know the names of every family within a 3 block radius. (For the first time after living here for three years.)
- I know the neighbors who need me to pick up an extra gallon of distilled water for their CPAP machines.
- We go scootering (at six feet apart) with the kiddo and mom up the street who are as crazed from staying indoors as we are.
- A basket of toilet paper showed up on our doorstep one morning with the note: “What’s the difference between a shower curtain and toilet paper? Oh, so YOU’RE the one!” They delivered these to twenty different houses. That’s a lot of toilet paper jokes.
When the Kim String Trio performed on our sidewalk, they played beautifully while cars and cyclists and passersby stood and cheered. And really, there was something about hearing these three play that made me smile more today than I have in the last month.
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